Maybe you think you know all there is to know about your friends, but these spicy questions are sure to open up some deeper conversations in your relationships. Whether you’re looking for some conversation starters, or you want to play a fun question game with friends, these spicy questions to ask your friends are the perfect place to start.
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We’ve listed over 150 spicy questions to ask friends and even your best friend, and we’ve categorized our questions to help you decide which things to ask to really get to know the people you’re closest to:
- Spicy Questions to Ask Friends
- Deep Questions to Ask Friends
- Funny Questions to Ask Friends
Whether you’re hosting a fun night in or you’re simply out to dinner with your best friend, these questions to ask your friends are bound to start some fun conversations and help you learn more about each other.
It’s time to get deep and uncover all there is to know about your friends, and best friends, with our juicy questions!
Spicy Questions to Ask Friends
These juicy questions to ask your friends are perfect to get to know more about their romantic lives. You can delve deep with these personal questions and find out all there is to know about what your friends look for in a partner, and you can share those hilarious stories about awkward dates too!
Enjoy our list of spicy questions to ask your friends!
- How many people have you kissed?
- What do you think is your most attractive physical feature?
- How many partners have you had?
- Who is your celebrity crush?
- Do you think you’re a good kisser?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you on a date?
- Do you have a secret crush?
- Have you ever had a fake social media account?
- What is your most disturbing fantasy?
- Have you ever been flat-out rejected?
- Have you ever been on a dating app?
- Who is the hottest person you know?
- What would your ideal partner look like?
- Have you ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling?
- How old were you when you had your first kiss?
- What was your biggest dating disappointment?
- Have you ever had a one-night stand?
- What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had?
- Would you ever secretly judge someone for the amount of partners they’d had?
- What’s the most outrageous thing you’ve ever tried in bed?
- Have you ever had a secret admirer?
- Who was the last person you thought about sexually?
- Have you ever dated someone famous?
- What’s your favorite go-to question to ask on a first date?
- What is your biggest turn off?
- What is your biggest turn on?
- How would you describe your ideal ‘type’?
- Have you ever ghosted someone?
- Have you ever sent nudes?
- Have you ever had a crush on one of your best friends?
- What’s the weirdest thing someone’s ever said to you on a date?
- Where would your ideal date be?
- Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship?
- Which accent do you find the most attractive?
- Does it matter how much money someone earns when considering them as a potential partner?
- How important are looks to you in a relationship?
- Do you have any unusual crushes?
- What’s the longest you’ve ever been single for?
- Would you describe yourself as a flirtatious person?
- Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
- Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
- Have you ever been in a love triangle?
- You have to date one of your friends. Who are you choosing?
- Have you ever snuck out of the house?
- What music gets you in the mood?
- Would you ever date someone much older than you?
- What is your love language?
- What is your favorite love song?
- Do you believe in soulmates?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents have caught you doing?
- Do you think a partner should be a best friend first?
- What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
- Do you like dirty talk?
- What is the most unattractive thing someone has ever said to you?
- What is your go-to outfit for a date?
- Out of all your closest friends, who is the most attractive?
- How important is physical affection to you in a relationship?
- What is the most romantic place you have ever been to in your life?
- What is your favorite fictional love story?
- What is your best piece of relationship advice?
- If you could go on a date with a historical figure, who would it be and why?
- Have you ever had a romantic fling on a vacation or trip?
- Would you ever date someone who has a history of cheating?
- Who do you think should pay on a first date?
- What is something unconventional that you find sexy in a person?
- What’s the best compliment you have ever received?
- Who do you think is the most attractive cartoon character?
Deep Questions to Ask Friends
If you’ve exhausted all avenues of conversation with even your best friends, then these deep questions are a great way to uncover more about their personal lives. Sometimes these questions can make us uncomfortable, but that’s what leads to interesting conversations, so use them wisely and you’ll learn so much about your best friends.
- Are you a jealous person?
- What’s been your worst breakup?
- What are the main things you look for in a partner?
- Have you ever been in love?
- What does love mean to you?
- If you had won one million dollars, what would be the first thing you’d do with it?
- What’s your favorite memory from your teenage years?
- What’s your biggest regret in life?
- Have you ever had a near-death experience?
- If you could have one magical power, what would it be?
- Who is the most important person in your life right now?
- What is the worst thing you have ever done to somebody else?
- What is your favorite holiday?
- What is your favorite season?
- What is something you would change about your own appearance?
- Who is your favorite fictional character?
- What is your biggest secret?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- In life, what are you most proud of?
- Are you a morning or a night person?
- What’s the best gift you’ve ever received, and from whom?
- Have you ever broken the law?
- What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made?
- Would you rather have one close friend or lots of acquaintances?
- Have you ever cheated on someone?
- Have you ever been cheated on?
- Have you ever got revenge on an ex for something?
- What is your biggest fear?
- Do you have any unusual fears?
- What is your dream job?
- What is the best concert you’ve ever been to?
- Do you think your parents are proud of you?
- Have you ever been heartbroken?
- Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
- What’s the best country you’ve ever been to?
- What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told?
- What’s your favorite childhood memory?
- What do you think is the meaning of life?
- What is the most important lesson you’ve learned in life so far?
- What do you think is your greatest strength?
- What do you think is your biggest weakness?
- Have you ever compared yourself to your close friends?
- What do you think is the key to a happy relationship?
- Do you think everyone should have a best friend?
- How do you define ‘happiness’?
- Have you ever kept a secret from your best friend?
Funny Questions to Ask Friends
Funny questions are a great way to lighten the mood after some deeper conversations. We’ve listed some fun questions to spark interesting conversations, whilst also bringing laughter to any friend group.
- What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done to get somebody’s attention?
- What’s the most embarrassing song you’ve ever sung on karaoke?
- What’s your most embarrassing bad habit?
- What is the most outrageous thing you’ve ever done?
- Which actor would you like to play you in a movie about your life?
- Have you ever had an awkward moment with a friend’s family member?
- If you could be invisible, who would you spy on?
- Have you ever told a crazy lie to get someone to like you?
- What’s the most disgusting thing you’ve ever eaten?
- If you could live in a fictional world, which world would you like to live in?
- Do you have any hidden talents?
- If you could swap bodies with a member of the opposite sex for one day, what would be the first thing that you’d do?
- How high is your screen time?
- Have you ever been on TV?
- What is the wildest thing you’d do for a million dollars?
- If you could turn into an animal, which animal would you choose?
- Out of all our friends, which one is the most likely to survive a zombie apocalypse?
- What do you think is the ugliest fashion trend?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you in public?
- What is your guilty pleasure?
- What is the most outrageous lie you’ve ever told?
- What is your most embarrassing memory?
- Is there a famous person who really annoys you?
- What is your biggest romantic fail?
- What is the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?
- What is the most ridiculous thing you were led to believe?
- If you were a vegetable, what vegetable would you be and why?
- If animals could talk, which one do you think would be the rudest?
- If you were stranded on a deserted island and could only bring three things, what would you choose?
- Have you ever tried to eat a spoonful of cinnamon? How did it go?
- What’s your favorite cheesy joke that always makes you laugh?
- If you could have one superpower, but it could only be used for something completely silly, what would it be?
- What’s the most awful pick-up line someone has ever used on you?
- Have you ever sent a text message or a DM to the wrong person?
- What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents have ever done?
- Which cartoon character do you think you’re most like?
- If you could invent a new product, what would it be?
- What is your best dance move?
- If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what food would it be?
- What is the craziest thing you’ve ever seen someone do in public?
- Did you have any silly nicknames growing up?
Ask Your Friends These Juicy Questions to Know Them on a Deeper Level!
We hope you enjoyed our range of juicy questions to ask your friends! Hopefully, these questions helped to create interesting conversations and allowed your friends to open up more to you. You can use them at parties in the future too as great conversation starters to ask your friends.
Whether you ask your friends all of the deepest questions or take a more light-hearted approach, these juicy questions will definitely create conversations to bring you and your friends closer.
Eleanor is a qualified English teacher and has received a Post Graduate Diploma in Education (PGDE), specializing in Secondary English, and holds a BA (Hons) in English Literature from Liverpool John Moores University. She is certified to teach English as a foreign language (TEFL) and has worked with students in the U.K. and South East Asia. She currently works as an English teacher in Vietnam, teaching students across a range of ages.